Alright, you started a conversation with a woman. Keep it light and simple. Don’t be too pushy and try to talk about neutral topics. VictoriyaClub (international dating site) did a research about the topics on the 1st date. And here is what you should start with:
Then, depending on her answers you can lead your conversation in any direction you feel more comfortable. For instance, if she stated she likes movies you can discuss actors, celebrities. And if she likes pets you can talk about cats or dogs, etc.
How to Ask a Girl Her Number?
Now, your conversation flows naturally and you feel connection. 5-10 years ago you would need to ask a girl her phone number. It used to be a complicated point. Some women don’t give a phone number. Now, it’s a very private thing.
But luckily in 2021 you have much more options. In order not to scare her away, just ask her: “Are you on Instagram?” or “Do you have a Facebook?” 99% of beautiful girls have some social media accounts. It’s much safer to go this way.
Also a wise move is to open a Facebook/Instagram on your phone and give it to her, saying: “I would love to follow your Facebook / Instagram. Could you type in your name?”
However, sometimes you really need to get her phone number. Don’t wait too long. Try to figure out what you can do together as friends and direct your conversation accordingly. For example, watch movie, go for a lunch, walk the dog together. When you feel you’ve reached a pretty high level of trust, go for it. Here are some good phrases:
“I would love to hear what you think about the new movie that was just released. Let’s exchange numbers so we could coordinate?”
Should You Ask Her for a Date?
Okay, you are having fun together. Your conversation is laid-back and pleasant. She reciprocates with you. Is it a good time to ask for a date?
The fact number one is that you are already on a date. Continue Reading Good Topics When You Meet a Girl at the Beach